Confused Much?

A lot of messages I get say “Do you date ____ guys?”  Fill in the blank…   I would say I’ve seen it all – but then someone will go and surprise me.   Quite honestly,  if I am looking for anything at all – I certainly don’t know what it is.   And, right now I am at peace with that.

I do know, however,  that I wouldn’t want to try my luck with someone who considers himself bisexual.   (I apologize if that offends any of my readers..)  I have known people who have done this – and having several good friends who are homosexual –  I just can’t do it.

**Edit:   Because this became a topic of discussion on Twitter-  I want to clarify that my reasoning behind not wishing to date someone bisexual is strictly due to I don’t want to be in a position where I could possibly lose a guy to another guy.    I have seen this happen, and not saying it would:  but I don’t want to take that chance, because I have seen how bad it hurts.  (Not to say that losing someone to a female isn’t as bad..  overall, it’s just a mental thing.)     But, much like my “I don’t date guys with kids” thing,  if the right person were to come along, I believe it to be something I could look past.

So – today I got this message:

“your beauitufl would u date a bi man?”

Grammar and spelling completely set aside,  I respond:

“No, I am sorry.”

“No don’t be sorry that’s bgood… I’m straight”

Uhh……  ??????   Is it wrong that I find that to be bullshit?

May 2012 bring some good stories-  whether they be crazy or not.  =)