“Hi,
Other than being not local to you, I think that you and I maybe a good match.
I get the feeling that you are quite the kinky girl, I want to write what I would really like in a partner.
I am looking to find an eventual partner that is somewhat of a dichotomy. She should appear to most to be a confident and independent woman in social situations. However she must be submissive to me at all times whether in public or not. She may be dominate to other women. She will bring home female playmates to our bed on occasion for us both to play with. While I am not into all aspects of the BDSM lifestyle, I do believe that my partner should receive some of the following from time to time. A good over the knee spanking with a bare hand or belt, wax play, nipple clamps, anal sex, hair pulling, rough sex, being tied to the bed, and those type things.
She also needs to expect the unexpected. I may require her to strip in the elevator on the way to our hotel room, and walk nude to our room. Or I may have her get naked and masturbate on top of the conference table at a friends office. Or give me a blowjob at a bar or restaurant. Or I may bring her to orgasm in a room full of people without her being able to make a sound or she will be exposed.
Please know that I am looking for a long term relationship, and that the keyword here is relationship. This will not happen over the internet, or in one or two meetings. Although I am a dominate soul and I am looking for a woman with submissive tendencies, I still want a partner.
If this sound like you, please let me know. “
Oh, believe you me, if this guy were to show up on my front doorstep – he’d be in for a beating.
Soon2BeCatLady 
at least he is being up front about his wants…
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I respect people’s sex lives, including those in the BDSM culture. That said. I know I haven’t read your dating profile, but I’m going to take a wild guess here that you don’t hint at being a sub anywhere on it. Who the fuck just introduces their kinks in their FIRST message???
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Oh agreed– to each their own.. but if someone doesn’t say something about that lifestyle – then that is not something to be brought up until you know someone.
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Here’s clearly just saying what every man wants to say but are too afraid to bring.
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Yeah, the problem is that this was his first communication with you. That is what I find truly disturbing.
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