You’re Not Sharing Me With Anyone!

23 Aug

Correct me if I am wrong, but – if a girl wants more than one guy, shouldn’t she be the one seeing if someone is comfortable with that, and not the other way around?

“Would you be willing to date a guy who was open to sharing u with another guy?”

So, let me get this straight.. He already thinks I am too much to handle?  This message is offensive.   Does he have the other guy already in mind?  Either way,  absolutely not.   I think it’s okay to casually go out on dates with how many ever people you want,  but if you’re going to be any sort of physical,  one at a time.  Call me old fashioned in that regard.

I feel like this doofus could be suggesting so many different things..  I did respond back “What?” to the message, but have yet to hear a response.   If it is any bit entertaining,   I will certainly follow up.


5 Responses to “You’re Not Sharing Me With Anyone!”

  1. charginout August 24, 2012 at 11:29 am #

    As guys, we’re all at a loss atm on how to deal with so-called “independence” which really seems like a liscence for women to just act very bad. This is an issue that should be addressed with your fellow women, as guys we have no control over it. Which leads me to think that this was his way of saying he does not want to control you. You should actually take it as a compliment. If you know a better way for guys to express this, please share.


    • Soon2BeCatLady August 24, 2012 at 9:18 pm #

      “I’d be open to casually dating if you aren’t looking for something exclusive” would have gotten the point across.


      • charginout August 27, 2012 at 10:30 am #

        I gave it a day to let that sink in, and I think if a giy said that, then the woman would think “he doesn’t like me enough to want to be exclusive” so it’ a no win situation for the guy. I think women really need to become way more honest about what they want from relationships. Everybody knows what guys want…but with women it’s not so clear. As men, if we truly knew what women wanted then we could tell whether or not we could provide that.


      • Soon2BeCatLady August 27, 2012 at 11:07 am #

        I agree to an extent.. HOWEVER:
        I have had great discussions with people online, and meeting in person has proved to be a different story sometimes. So, being that these messages are coming from people I have never met in life before – it’s a whole different ballgame. I am not going to decide to date someone, sleep with someone, what have you – without meeting them in person..


      • charginout August 28, 2012 at 10:42 am #

        I agree with you on that one. I’m simply saying that us guys are admitted confused on this one. We don’t know where the middle ground is between full tiime bf/gf stuff and complete nonchalance(?) whether she’s seeing other people or not.


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