Such a Shame

26 Dec

Coming as a first message, this is a little intense and weird:

“you know it’s a real shame that we met here… because im sure that outside of this you’re really fun and interesting person and I know that I am too…. but people can never really be themselves online… I mean, look around you… its guys trying to be super confident and girls trying to be super b`tchy… interesting thing is, someone like you is probably cautious at first… which is cool once people get to know you… its just that no one really gets that far

I live my life a certain way…. I try to see the beauty in everything and believe that beauty is often bred from tragedy…. and unlike most, I believe that people in this world are inherently GOOD…and I do my best to see that good in everyone–even if I have to look hard to find it… I put my trust out there and always give the benefit of the doubt… and if I see their best intentions…. they are going to want to live up to it… people will rise to the occasion”


I hate that people consider sending someone a message (or even conversing with them online) “meeting” someone.   I have met people that I talked with online that I was very compatible with online through written word, but not through spoken word.   I think in the online stages, you merely know of the person, and don’t actually know them.

3 Responses to “Such a Shame”

  1. kellig December 26, 2012 at 6:15 pm #

    i like htat he is “giving everyone” the benefit of doubt, but also posits that women looking for love online are “super bitchy”. awesome.


  2. reviewmyonlinedate December 27, 2012 at 1:08 am #

    That was written by one of those guys that thinks he’s an online date philosopher. You should find out where he teaches his offline course in online dating. Probably Buck’s Tavern on the corner of Bitter Street and Axetogrind Way.


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