Very Bold.

10 Feb

Something tells me I am not the first person he has said this to..

“probably the best lookin chick i’ve seen/ if you like good oral send me a message, i can host and you look like just my type.”

Geez- is good looks all it takes?   I don’t have actual statistics, of course, but I would bet a large sum of money that most females logging onto online dating sites are looking for a relationship and not a booty call.    Maybe I’m wrong.

I wonder how many times guys try this before realizing it doesn’t work.   Or, maybe it does work and I am in the minority saying “no” to these kinds of offers from guys without so much as a photo on their profile.   (Not that having a picture would change anything – I don’t know where he’s been.. no, thank you!)

“You look like just my type”  feels creepy to me for some reason in this context.  I can’t quite put my finger on it .

This brings me back to when I was very young.   I was told not to take candy from strangers.   To think I am still using that lesson today, and electing not to go to a strangers house for sexual favors.  I think my mother would be proud.


3 Responses to “Very Bold.”

  1. DatingMary February 10, 2012 at 12:31 am #

    I’ve always hated the line “I can host.” it’s sooooooo creepy


    • L February 10, 2012 at 12:32 am #

      Not that hosting yourself would really be any better.


  2. Mia February 16, 2012 at 2:40 pm #

    I get these messages ALL the time. And I’m not all that good looking (maybe I look desperate enough to say yes??) Also, I get a lot of “I’m in town just for the weekend…blah blah blah oral.” So did they set up a profile saying they lived in said town just for one weekend? An entire, completely filled-out profile with pictures and lots of answered OKC questions? for just a weekend? hmmmm….

    It must work for them sometimes, or why would they keep doing it?


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