Every now and again, I log on to #31’s page specifically to see what people have flagged as inappropriate, as he is my buddy who was given the opportunity to be a moderator.
The most common violation is having pictures of something other than themselves, for example a pet photo. Of course, I have seen a fair share of junk photos, as well as some questionable photos from some ladies as well. Keep it classy, everyone.
I had a fun outing last night with some close girl friends of mine, and we spent a little while moderating together. I think our overall favorite for the evening was a female profile that was flagged. There were 3 photos of the girl, and a blank profile. On OKCupid, blank profiles are not against the rules.. The comment from the flagger was:
“This photos are from porn! Trust me i know my porn”
Now, technically, he flagged the profile- which means the moderators can’t do anything. There is no violation with the profile. He should have flagged the photo.. However- my question here is – Where is the proof? Sure- the moderators could image-search the photo on Google – but what does that prove? Maybe the porn “star” has moved on from the industry and is looking for a relationship now. Who are we to make that judgment call? Although that situation is not very likely, I still don’t believe we could really prove otherwise.
To the flagger: Wow. I am not saying that watching porn is bad, because I don’t really have strong opinions on it… Do what you will. I am sorry, if you recognize a girl’s face on a dating website as something you saw while watching porn.. it may be high time to get some other hobbies.
The rules for moderation say to delete a profile that “Is obviously a spammer (based on photos or essays)” If I do a Google search and find 500 image results on a photo, I vote to delete the whole damn profile. Any guy who doesn’t recognize the photo as stolen thinks he’s messaging a pretty girl, when he’s just opening himself up to getting scammed and spammed.
If you’re a porn star, and you’ve decided to use OKC to find a bona-fide relationship, take a new picture of yourself, haha.
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