Interesting Approach..

17 Nov

On OKCupid,  it doesn’t take long to recognize people that visit your profile constantly.  This first message came from someone who, according to my visitor list, never looked at my profile. (Although, not possible since he would have had to in order to send a message.)

“Quit being a bitch.”

This message really caught me off guard.  My profile has always been well-received, and I don’t have the “Responds VERY Selectively” red light of death.

Since I certainly don’t consider myself a bitch, I responded, “Only if you quit being nice.”   (Get it?  Because he wasn’t being nice!)

And within eight hours, he deactivated his OKCupid profile.

This mystery remains unsolved.

8 Responses to “Interesting Approach..”

  1. My Dating Hangovers November 17, 2014 at 4:37 am #

    Isn’t it amazing how these “special” type of men take the time to send you a crappy message about your profile? I get the “you seem so critical” and “I see why you’re single” comments every now and then. Depending on my mood, I’ll either ignore or play with them a little. Don’t get all pissy with me because my greeting somehow made you feel uh… inadequate. Le sigh.


  2. Ricardo November 17, 2014 at 2:39 pm #

    I think that’s just a batch email. An attempt to at least get a response in a simple and childish way. It’s the ‘pulling a girl’s hair’ of the online dating world, I guess. With the exception that you can do it to everyone at once and someone is bound to respond.


  3. Ann St. Vincent November 18, 2014 at 2:37 am #

    Wow thats weird.


  4. Joe November 19, 2014 at 11:45 am #

    He is a very strange young man.

    I’ve heard of the strategy of negging a woman ( which I think is stupid) , but this is reduculous.


  5. Joe November 19, 2014 at 11:47 am #

    Still better than the guy who felt the need to share his restroom experience. 😂


    • Soon2BeCatLady November 19, 2014 at 12:50 pm #

      I don’t know if I agree… At least that guy talked. This one didn’t answer after my initial response leaving me wondering “What the hell did I do?!”


      • Joe November 19, 2014 at 2:38 pm #

        I seriously doubt it was anything you did. Some people are just plain mean. He’s probably got a chip on his shoulder or something.

        Keep your head up buddy.


  6. Joe November 19, 2014 at 11:49 am #

    Oops meant to say ridiculous.


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