When it comes to your first in-person meet-up, learn from my mistakes and DO NOT GO TO LUNCH. (Or dinner.) You really don’t know if you will have good chemistry with someone, and eating a meal is a big awkward event if you don’t click, or they’re weird. I don’t know why I continue to make this same mistake over and over, but – I’m a sucker for sushi. So, when Charming Tinder Fellow suggested we meet for a sushi lunch date, I broke my rule.